Citizen
TV’s Hussein Mohamed concluded an exclusive ‘One on One’ end of the year 2015
interview with Kenya’s Deputy President, William Ruto, with a question on NEW
YEAR RESOLUTIONS.
The
Deputy President, who had during the entire interview session responded boldly
and carefully to all the other questions from the TV journalist, technically
shied away from the question about resolutions with a promise to think about
his New Year 2016 resolution.
That
the Deputy President was not quick to answer to the resolutions question was
remarkable. Most people generate a poorly thought out list of New Year
resolutions that hardly live beyond the 2nd week of January.
Usually,
at the beginning of the year, people get the opportunity, excuse, incentive or
reason to put together New Year resolutions, goals, objectives, dreams or plans.
By the end of January one gets a chance to check out if the resolutions set
were more than just thoughts and if they have morphed into something substantial.
Firmness
of purpose does not just involve nice-sounding goals that you post on social
media platforms such as Facebook, or during appearances on Radio or TV. It should include plans that will change
your life; a different way of doing things that will earn you a promotion or a
fatter cheque at the end of the month.
A
Harvard Professor is noted to have inferred earlier in 2015, that the most
common new year resolutions at a personal level the world over include; losing
weight, quitting smoking, quitting
drinking, taking up physical exercises, getting out of debt, helping others,
learning something new, spending more time with family, getting organised and
enjoying life more.
It
is important to consider the financial
and social changes that will need to
be made in pursuit of the goals.
If you set out to lose weight
for example, you must not lose sight of the fact that you will need to invest
time in exercises at the expense of other social and work engagements. To
exercise frequently you might need to join a sports club or a gym, you have to
buy the right attire (shoes and track suits), you might have to pay a personal
fitness coach, buy some exercising tools like a skipping rope, you might have
to change your diet or hire a nutritionist to help along, include some food
supplements and finally change the wardrobe because of the new body size or
shape.
This example helps us to focus
on the financial implications of our
New Year resolutions, and in the light of the implications mentioned in
the example, a trigger for your thoughts on;
b) Expenses - Are they under control? Do you record them for accountability? Do you use budgets? Are you happy with them? What will you change so that you will not stall your resolutions?
The business of setting
personal goals is not in the school curriculum and as a result many
professionals have a scant understanding of the concept of resolutions. They
liken resolutions to good dreams and nice expectations, and hence fail to
realise that the process of coming up with any resolution should consider medium,
and long-term goals.
A lot of thought needs to go
into setting goals. In an opinion piece for Harvard Business Review (HBR), Prof
Chamorro-Premuzic wrote “we all have predispositions, character traits, and
habits that we have built over many years, and most of our New Year’s
resolutions involve breaking these patterns, which is very difficult to do and
requires a lot of work… So you have to be deliberate and strategic”.
The improper setting of goals
triggers a destructive pattern of behaviour that ultimately squashes them even
before they are achieved. These self-destructive behaviours include
procrastination, lack of commitment and focus, and failure to be accountable
for the goal.
If you discover that you are not
making progress as you set out to achieve the goals, then it is time to enlist
the services of a life coach, who will guide you through the path to
self-discovery. You can also enrol in a personal development program in the
area you identify the need to do better.
To actualise your New Year
resolutions, you need to put everything down in writing, especially the goals
and how you plan to achieve them including a deadline for each step. It may
also help to share the goals with a mentor, significant other or your
supportive boss.
Remember. “Mental ink fades very
fast. Write your goals down and chart them out like a map over the year.” Go
for them, one at a time and success will be yours.
Wahome Ngari is the Principal Consultant at Citadel
Consulting Ltd and runs the personal finance management program known as
Wealth Creation Masterclass. He can be
reached at wahomengari@citadel-africa.co.ke or on 0724
888219
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